Bright eyes update

I had date number two with bright eyes then I never blogged about because I just was too embarrased, but just got a recent update that I must blog about. The night was good overall but there were a few factors that made me think not-so-much.

1. while we were drinking, I asked him casually "hey, tell me something about you that I don't know.." he replies "well, in college I used to experiment with guys and I really liked it". then persisted to tell me that he still is attracted to men, blah blah blah.
2. he just got out of a 4 year relationship a month ago
3. he was super reserved, temperature in the flirt thermometer read zero celsius
4. on our kiss goodnight, I finally understood the meaning of feeling like you kissed a fish.

So of course I write the dreadful letter (hey, I should get props, most people don't even write the letter!):

"Hey xxx,
I hate writing these emails but I just wanted to be honest with you.
I just don't think we really are a good fit for each other. I had a great time with you, but I guess it was just a couple things that made me reevaluate our compatibility. I am sure you are offended, and you have every right to be, but I just want to let you know that I really am not trying to offend, just be honest with you.

I hope we can be friends ...

-me"

and I know, its a shitty letter to write someone, but at the end of the day, its so much better then never calling them back and ignoring their calls, etc. right? I was being honest.
Later I get a response from him later (which i just received last night):


"no problem. i'm curious...what are those couple things? and don't
worry, you won't hurt my feelings."

I am super swamped today, so I didn't get a chance to write, but honestly, what the eff do you write back? Hi, I think you're gay? Not interested in getting with some guy that just got out of a 4 year relationship,... and now I just got this email:

"Your cat got your tongue? Or perhaps someone asked you to solve a puzzle
or offer to pick up more than two drinks."

what the hell was that? Now I am pissed off, that was just not necessary and rude.

so of course me being me writes this:

"excuse me? Were you trying to be an asshole by that comment?
I actually have not been at my computer long enough to take some time to write you back, and then I get this. Nice to show your true colors."

ugh, men. this is why I *retired.
*retired from meeting, dating any more men from nerve.com. and being very selective in who I am going to date if I meet someone elsewhere.

ugh, so over it!